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Thursday, October 22, 2009

Divorce, easier than marriage.

But the impact is more!

Saturday, August 1, 2009

"24": Which female character are you?

Michelle Dessler
You are Michelle Dessler! Though ambitious, she is not willing to sacrifice neither love nor happiness to achieve her goals. A deep river in a seemingly shallow stream, Michelle has a passionate soul and gives a lot of herself in any situation!

"24": What male character are you most like?

Jack Bauer
You are most like Jack Bauer. This rather unstable protagonist have a restless soul and certain authority issues, but is extremely lojal, and would sacrifice everything, except the people he cares about, in order to do what is right and for his duty!

Treat a Scorpio - wikiHow Part 2

Scorpio, (born between Oct 23-Nov 22) as many sources say, can be a very loyal and loving friend. But to become true friends with a Scorpio, it will take a lot of time to prove to them that you a friend they should take seriously. This is guide that will help you gain trust with a Scorpio. Enjoy!

Tips


  • Symbol: the Scorpion
  • Ruling Planet: Mars/Pluto
  • Ruling House: Eighth House
  • Element: Water
  • Quality: Fixed
  • Body Parts: sex organs
  • Keyword: SEX
  • Good Friendships: Cancer, Pisces, Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo
  • Play date: chatting on the Internet
  • Perfect jobs: private investigator, surgeon, psychologist
  • Pleasure: mystery, calling the shots, passion, trust, sex, flirting, and change
  • Pain: exposure, simplicity, interruption, fake people, nosy people, too much attention and being taken advantage of
  • Positive Characteristics: Determined, self-sufficient, penetrating, self-disciplined, sensitive to undercurrents, all or nothing - mentality, self-controlled, ambitious (motivated by emotions), persistence, insight, commitment with heart and soul, seeker of truth, introspective.
  • Negative Characteristics: Extreme, possessive, domineering, stubborn, intolerant of weakness, manipulative, secretive, cynical, broody, pessimistic, ruthless, defensive, takes things too seriously, arrogant, fierce, neurotic,.
  • Scorpio is the astrology sign of extremes and intensity. Scorpios are very deep, intense people, there is always more then meets the eye. They present a cool, detached and unemotional air to the world yet lying underneath is tremendous power, extreme strength, intense passion and a strong will and a persistent drive. Scorpios have a very penetrative mind, do not be surprised if they ask questions, they are trying to delve deeper and figure things out and survey the situation. They always want to know why, where and any other possible detail they can possibly know. Scorpio's are very weary of the games that other people try to play and they are very aware of it. Scorpios tend to dominate and control anyone that lets them, or anyone that they find weak. The person that a Scorpio respects and holds close to them is treated with amazing kindness, loyalty and generosity. On the outside, a Scorpio has great secretiveness and mystery. This magnetically draws people to them. They are known to be controlling and too ambitious but only because they need control for this makes them feel safe.


Warnings


  • They can be strong willed and determined, almost to the point of being stubborn. This makes them great competitors, even if they are able to hide this desire to win from you. This also makes Scorpios very dominant, controlling and passionate. When they do not have a positive outlet for self-expression, they often turn inwards and become destructive.
  • When wronged, they do not easily forgive. It is almost as if the Scorpio sign invented the word "revenge." However, they just as easily never forget an act of kindness and are always ready to repay it. Scorpios are very loyal friends, but can be possessive. Scorpios are also conservative when it comes to money but when they do spend it; they know the right investments to make.
  • Scorpios are often a force to be reckoned with. They are passionate, committed and in the same turn, if you are an enemy, they can be just as intensely ruthless. Scorpios are so intense, there are few challenges they are not willing to meet. They will use any information at hand to beat competitors and do not hesitate to move in for the kill. However, a lot of these strategies are ultimately self-defeating. This is the tragedy of being a scorpio.

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Treat a Scorpio - wikiHow Part 1

How to Treat a Scorpio

Scorpio, (born between Oct 23-Nov 22) as many sources say, can be a very loyal and loving friend. But to become true friends with a Scorpio, it will take a lot of time to prove to them that you a friend they should take seriously. This is guide that will help you gain trust with a Scorpio. Enjoy!


Steps

  1. Remember that a Scorpio is very observant and can see through things very easily, which means if you are being fake with a Scorpio, they would notice and wouldn't think you a worthy of their trust--which means no friendship.
  2. Scorpio's are very mysterious and they don't like telling people about themselves that much. If you ask them too many questions they will feel uncomfortable and without showing a single bit of it, they wouldn't like you for that. So give them space.
  3. However, Scorpio's like to hear about other people rather then telling about themselves. Tell a Scorpio something about yourself and they will most likely remember it. But try not to tell them everything all at once, because then the Scorpio won't have anything to be intrigued about you--cause they like to slowly gather information and once they have it all, its less interesting.
  4. Scorpios don't like too much attention. They like it when you are nice to them and value their opinions, and also show them some respect.
  5. If a Scorpio has something to say, they've been thinking about it before they said it, so make sure you listen cause it might make a difference for you.
  6. Scorpios like to feel in charge, as much as they might not want to show it. They love the feeling of being the one in charged because that's just the mentality they were born with. If you take this away from them purposely then you will lose points with them. Still, don't try to be a push-over, since then the Scorpion won't see you as someone who can stand up for themselves. Scorpions value a person with pride (but don't stomp on theirs)
  7. Scorpios are all about mystery and finding things out. They are the most curious people you will find, whether they show it or not. There has to be something that they are interested in, e.g. music, the opposite sex, places they want to visit--try to find out what they like the most, and research on it. Make sure not to ask them questions that are too personal. But when you find out what they like, talk about it. Don't seem like a know-it-all. Ask them questions about it too and make them feel smart. They will remember you most when you make them feel smart and are interested (for real) and when you teach them something new.
  8. Scorpios have sex on their mind 70-95 percent of the day. Even though they might not show it, they think about it a lot. But don't take this lightly because, especially the female, they usually fight their temptations and preserve themselves for someone who they feel is really worthy of having sex with them. For guys, he might be more of the one-night-stand type of guy.
  9. What Scorpio appreciates is when you treat them with more respect then just anyone. For example, lets say your Scorpio friend is standing next to one of their friends, that you know. You can hug that person quickly, and when you hug the Scorpio, you hug them longer and slower. But remember, Scorpios don't like too much affection in public if you are not going out with them. Even if they are smiling or not, they might feel uncomfortable. But if they are giving you this flirtatious look or if they are the one making the moves, they like it.
  10. Don't get a Scorpio to be mad at you, whether you do it intentionally or unintentionally. When you make a Scorpio mad at you, as much as they want to forget it, they cant. They will remember what you did to hurt them for a long time. Just don't be fake with them. Don't make false promises, and NEVER lie. They are very resourceful and can find things out in a short time. They also use their intuition, which is usually right.
  11. Remember this: The Scorpios that are the most quiet, are the ones who see it all. They've seen you when you didn't notice, and they detect if you are good enough for them, just by seeing. And remember this one: THE MOST QUIET SCORPIOS ARE THE MOST FREAKIEST PEOPLE UNDERCOVER.
  12. Scorpios are really deep thinkers, who might often catch themselves day dreaming about reality or desires. However, this might not be a good thing because a Scorpio can dwell on the negative sometimes, even if they are smiling. If you come across a Scorpio who you think is in some sort of depression, don't ask them what's wrong. They will say nothing. Just compliment them on their look-but DON'T over do it. And then strike up a quick conversation with them. They might not have anything to say unless they ask simple questions about you. But you just ask them questions about a topic you guys talked about, or anything else--just don't pry into their emotions!!! If you stay with them, or even make them laugh, it will take away some of their sadness and they will really be grateful of that-whether they show it or not.
  13. The Scorpio has a strong sex appeal, whether they show it or not, and they are secretly proud of it. Say something like "You are a freak, I know it!" or "I've never met anyone who has a sex appeal like yours!" and they will enjoy it, just don't make it a BIG deal, and don't announce it 24/7, and be careful who you say it around.
  14. A Scorpio is not really the person to go up to you unless they are interested in you enough to go up to you. Don't be surprised if you are the new person around and everyone is talking about you. The Scorpio must have heard everyone's fascination with you and want to test it out for themselves and see what type of person you are. If this happens, seem confident but never cocky. Be nice to them, and be yourself. Scorpios value anyone who isn't afraid of being themselves. And tell them your interests and be honest when they ask you questions--it most likely won't be anything personal.
  15. When a Scorpio stares at you and tries to get your eye contact, they have been watching you--and they want you. Return the flirting with them and they will now be waiting for you to go up to them casually. Don't make them nervous. If you see they are nervous, give them time and kindly say you have to go somewhere, or without paying attention to anyone else (the opposite sex) take some of your attention off of them, because they don't like too much attention.
  16. If you want to impress a Scorpio, you must be honest and be yourself, but don't be disrespected by others, and don't be an immature idiot. They like people who get respect, or are at the top.
  17. When you are on a date with a Scorpio, don't try to kiss them on the first date. They will think you don't really want a solid relationship with them, and that's what a Scorpio wants, deep inside.
  18. Most Scorpios like the color black. Its dark and mysterious, like them. They also like the color red.
  19. When you have things in common with a Scorpio, they will remember you more. SO try to do/talk about thing that you guys have in common.
  20. Don't be too mysterious with a Scorpio. And NEVER tell a Scorpio that they are not right, or that you are a private person and you won't tell them something. They are the ones to be mysterious, not you. They only ask you questions to find out what type of person you are, and if they don't think you are a good person, they probably won't truly want to be your friend.
  21. Scorpios aren't really into talking on the phone--well, most of them. They prefer chatting on-line or talking in person.
  22. To show a Scorpio you care, be somewhat gentle with them and treat them better then you would treat another person. Don't over do it. If they see that you treat them with more respect, they will like you and start to repay you by treating you with more respect.
  23. Scorpios love to compete--and win. If you see a bored Scorpio and you guys already had a conversation. Do a small competition with them. Try not to have too many people watch because if they loose they will get a little annoyed. If they will they will want to secretly do it again so they can beat you. again. A Scorpio needs a competitor to be at its best. Just don't become its enemy in the process.
  24. Scorpios hide everything, especially what they feel. They might tell you a little bit of what they think and they will expect you to treat that with respect. But usually the hide what they feel most of the time, and if they feel wronged, they will hide it until everything just bursts out, and that's not a sight to see.
  25. Scorpios are really good friends, if they feel you are good enough to be their friend. Be loyal, treat them with respect, selflessness, intriguing, and they will appreciate you. Don't forget to be yourself, Scorpio has at least 10 definitions for the word 'fake' and being something your not is one of them. And being-faced.
  26. If you play hard-hard-to-get with a Scorpio, they will be up for the challenge. Just make sure no one else can have you or they are not going to want you. You have to be hard for everyone else to get, and that's what they consider hard to get. They like things to themselves and if everyone else can have you, they won't want you anymore.
  27. If you can show a Scorpio respect, and if you can't share some of the power with them, they will leave to somewhere/someone else.. No doubt.
  28. When a Scorpio gives you the piercing stare, you know you have gotten them upset. They may be thinking "I know what you did." "I don't like you" "I want to kill you" "I'm sick of you" "You are so fake." "Leave me alone." "You're getting on my nerves." Its going to take a while to gain back trust with a Scorpio if you get this look from them.
  29. The genitals are everybody's erogenous zone but since the Scorpio is the most sexually charged of all zodiac signs, the genitals are extremely sensitive and will ignite a passionate fire that cannot be extinguished. Stroke and caress these areas lightly. There is no wrong way to stimulate this area, but be gentle
  30. What does the Scorpio really want deep inside? They want to love somebody and trust somebody. They need to have their own privacy and space. They need to feel at least a little bit in control of something. They hate being bored and like change. They like honest people and hate it when people get in the way of their desires. Compliment them, but never over do it. Make them feel wanted, even if they are quiet. Show them that you care about them. Know about what you talk about with them. Be selfless and they will repay it by treating you the same way. Don't lie to them because they will find out the truth in a short time, and they most likely aren't going to tell you that they know because they keep their emotions to them selves. And if they do tell you, you most likely bothered them a lot by your lies. Scorpios like to be the best, and if you want to be the best, be the best with them but don't put yourself above them. If you want to win their heart or their sex-- you have to win everything else, including all the mental tests they will put you through. Scorpios are the most loyal people you will meet, if they feel you are worthy of their loyalty and love.

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Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Facts..

From birth to age eighteen, a girl needs good parents.
From eighteen to thirty-five, she needs good looks.
From thirty-five to fifty-five, she needs a good personality.
From fifty-five on, she needs good cash.

opsss.... i didn't see 'husband' there ? :-p

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Separation

Who can cross it easily? Human beings celebrate birth with joy, build relationship, enjoy the juice of it, additive to the bonding of family, and finally suffer when it breaks. Let it be a break off of relationship or death, it hurts and take time to heal. It’s not an easy play. Especially death of loved one has no leveling console. The severity of sore depends on the deep of love one has. The nature as its own agenda that remains unexplained. Its design of life cycle and construction of relationship are wonders. For god sake, no one have way to escape from going thru this bits and pieces in their life. Why, why, why and why such is life? What is essence behind this show? Are we human beings the most blessed species of living things or are meant to be the nastiest whom ‘deserve’ to undergo this ghastly soreness? No mistake we are somehow programmed to be this way and we don’t have ‘know-how’ to edit the codes.

Too many things running in our mind. We frighten to even think about it. We avoid talking or discussing about it. We have fear about it. The anxiety remains there and just hiding inside the heart. When it needs to come out, it bombs for sure. The grief of death even conquers the great Gautama Buddha. He out for enlightenment, he out to get the humans a solution but finally what he takes is surrendering. The truth that even he needs to digest is there are no way out! No way to bypassing it.
What all you can do is accepting it, living with it. Build yourself tough or you suffer. Come on men, but is it a click of act to become tough? How hard-wearing one need to be, to be able to digest the loved one leaving the planet? Ok I heard one of you say meditation. Is that right? Is that the workable remedy for living with it without going thru the bitter part of this living? Look like not much option experts says. Oh then I need it as much as you need. For those human being caught in the web of family, love and bonding, start to do something now or else you suffer. In fact the younger generation, the child in our lowest level of chain should be taught to know this fact and involve in mediation. Teach your child what is birth & death. What is separation, what is the chain of live, what could happen to one of the loved ones. How to be strong? What and how this so-called great meditation could help. This may could at least our little ones run off the pain of passing away of ours from their life.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Believe..

You know it didn’t happen, but you are being implicated for something that u didn’t do. You explaining it to them but the person in front of you are not bothered to believe you a cent.
Well it is very hurting when you’re telling the truth and people just don’t believe you. You try your best to explain in all the way that you know they have to believe it yet they still stare at you with a ‘no way’ look. Which means no matter how u squeeze it, scream or roll around it not gonna work. They dun regard your innocent words or even your expressive cries.
U feel wanna break everything in front you and yell out, ‘u dumb people why dun u understand? What language you want me to speak to convince?’ You cry loudly inside your heart yet quietly sit on the corner. U struggle, suffer and feel so shame and angry for not be trusted.

I still remember a day of my childhood.. I was standard 3, studying in a 3rd language school; I’m not good or fluent in that language yet. It was a spelling session. I’m not competent in that subject. Without knowing what gonna write I sit quietly to start the spelling. Just after the last question read by my teacher, we’re about to pass up the books. Suddenly my friend called our group monitor and complains that I kept book inside my drawer and cheated in spelling. My group monitor came to my place get that book and accuse me cheating. I explain to her that I didn’t. She didn’t believe me. I whom can’t converse well tried my best to make her convince but she’s firm in her charge on me. That moment, still clearly playing in my mental picture. I was helplessly keep repeating ‘Really, I didn’t copy; it is REAL’. That day for me REALLY was equal to PROMISE. But poor me, I can’t express more than that, but I strain and squashed to make her believe me.
However she went straight to my teacher and report that I cheated. It was that easy. Teacher asked me come in front the classroom and punished me. I got spanked and had to pulling the ears, squat up and down for 100 times. I did miserably, obeying my teacher’s order. That moment my inner state of feelings was like volcano. I hid them deep inside my heart and finished it off. It’s not about the punishment but the trust that nobody gave me when I needed it. The feeling of shame that I carry that moment was heavier than anything in the world. I disappointed, broke and back to my sit. I didn’t talk to anyone. I couldn’t take it that they lay blame on me for something that not true. Well I may not a smart child but I was honest. I will never cheat in exam in any case and I was such till I completed my college.

That day I got hurt very much. Very much as a deep wound that still ache when I am thinking about it. I hated the moment, I hated them, I hated everything. I was weak that day and I guess that changed me a lot to a less confidence child but surprisingly to an aggressive kid later in my secondary school days. Whenever teachers blame me for something I didn’t do, I tend to provoke and fight back! Yes, the sad thing is its not the only time it happens to me but many time in my life.. They just assume, assume and assume things. What’s wrong if try to listen to the explanation and at least look for proof or whatever to avoid someone simply got blamed. I hate autocratic. Just because they are elder than us don’t mean they can charge us blindly. Even for a tiny matter it is not acceptable. I promised to myself I will never do this to another child. In my life there is no chance for error in this matter.
The saying "Better that ten guilty persons escape than that one innocent suffer" not only for law but even in school.It could change one's life! Do not make the mistake..

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Birthday

Technically that’s the day you born. It’s the day reminds u that u are another year older. It’s a day that people reach u overwhelmingly to wish. It’s a day for you to see how many friends u have in a way. (Yet no messages don’t mean they are count anyway). It is a day u try to pass with good thoughts, mood and action. A day that later you realize not really special actually but just another ordinary day. Yet people try to make it special in many ways. you don’t feel exciting cutting cake or throw a party by any means but u forced to do so by nice people around u.
The day almost comes to the end, you think about it and you feel funny why it become not special for u anymore. Time was you had expectation to be noticed, you’re ignored. Now when you don’t have any expectation people notice you very much. Nobody’s fault, that’s life. Whatever it is, let it be. Just stay cool, nothing to feel special anyhow. Affirming it’s just another ordinary, unremarkable day :-)

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mother

You are god’s gift for species of human. You are diamond that always shine and never lost it value. No other love could more sincere than a mother’s. Mum, you gave me life; gave me endless and love. You tenderness and pure care always touches my heart. I still remember those days u put me on your lap. Those days I sleep beside you with hugs and my leg covers you. Those days I lean on your chest for comfort. Those days you groom us, after shower. Those days we play outdoor, then run to you and you feed us with love as well. Those days you kissed me whenever I won a competition. Those days we stay close to you bodily. Mum I wish those moments remain or returns. Mum, I miss you so much. Thou I’m with you, still close to you spiritually but I still yearning for those moments when I was a child under your direct squashy roof. I wish I never missed or build bridge between us which change our manner to each other. Less mushy, hardly any hugs and almost zero kisses. Why I grew up? Why there is a gap between parents and grown up child? Teenagers’ times are phase of chaos in almost everybody’s life. Changes are dramatics and rule the era. There is when the parenting mode changed as well. Many times parents and child both start to keep space between them as shy merely. Or in some cases, the impact of conflict between them. Apparently, time goes on and things totally changed when they move to age of youth and adult. Thou some may triumph over the conflict and boost the momentum but the bodily touch lost forever. I think a child is always a child to the parents even the son grown up to be a father himself; goes the same for a daughter. No matter what take place, they are still remaining as children. And as long as they do, the touch of love should remains. A mother’s touch is healing therapy for any pain. Mum, I wish I can back to those moments. But conform to the irreversible cycle of life. I have to make as wise wish.. I wish to born as your child again to gain the precious love. Wait a second, enough being a selfish child, I change my mind. I hope to have u as my child in next birth so that I will give you the tremendous care and love in return. Else there is no way to repay the 'debt!' May my wish come true. God bless you, mum.

S = Sweet look with heartfelt smile
E = Endless care through unbeatable and painful scarification
L = Love us deeply
L = Love us simply
A = And thinking about us, us and us every second!
M = Mother’s affection is just beyond compare …
A = Amma, one life is not enough to pay you back!
H = Happy Mother’s Day and thank you for everything…

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Mothers day 2009

Another year with its pink and heart shape decoration season everywhere.. Mother’s day has its grand publicity compare to 10 years ago … My mum is 56 yrs old this year.. I’m thinking what to present her for mother’s day.. Thinking about bringing her for body massage with foot relaxation.  She not gonna say yes in first place but I must bring her J yeah that’s her… as most of mother she is very self-scarifying and fully children-orientated. She hardly asks us anything for herself. Anything we offered will not accept by her easily as well. She went thru so many difficulties in life for us. She never enjoys any luxury stuff in her life… I want her to feel all this things .. another one I’m planning is a comfort chair for her, guess she’ll like it. But I aware all these gift could only make her surprise and happy for a minute, the next minute what matter is our love for her. Love your endlessly and make her real happy by being with her.. talk to her and spend valuable time with her while she is healthy.


Many of us busy making our account fat. Or some may really financially down and in situation to work day n might to keep going. While searching for it, we may take granted our time with family. Do not. 

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Shoot for the moon!

Shoot for the moon... even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Friendship vs Lifeship

Once upon a time, when we are still under age of 10s, we’d friend with anyone despite their difference. We play, play and play without worry anything about the friend’s detail. When go to secondary we start to enjoy an element call friendship. We write friendship poem recognizing the ship. In teenager stage we like to share the both happy and sad moments completely to our so-called best friend. Which then later you realize may not a good idea. Because some remain your friend but the closeness could have fade-off; some may no more in touch but somewhere out there carrying some of your secrets with them. Some may still near you but at the opposite site of the road as enemies. Well yeah it happens.

Only when you step into your 21st you understand the real value behind of the ship. And start choosing them with little careful and determine the level to open your stories as well. Not to deny, that’s the most enjoyable term of being in warmness of friendship. You appreciate the relationship and pay importance for bonding. The friendship continues from here but the active period depends on the individuals and the intensity of the ship itself.

Look at the age, in beginning at our early 20s a group of friends talk about studies and soon later about their career development. That’s the time all busy working and making our account as fat as you can too. Yet they still keep in touch closely. Soon the topics changes to another level of life, love life. Friends enjoy sharing the up and downs of being in love. Besides, chit-chatting is like sugar-eating and days past with lotta fun at this stage. The things you talk about similar at the point of life. Later few of them may just started seeing someone, few may already met their life partner, or some may even busy finalizing for their weddings. Then slowly one by one will get going with their life and busy with babies, husband, and family and work too.

Suddenly one day you realize, you are left alone in the plane of single. Either you hardly receive calls from married-friends or even having them around but while they lost in stories of kids and husband, you sitting quietly having your old career-related story on mind which not attractive anymore.

You, as someone whom too sure to live single and proudly publicize it to all you friends when they advise you tie a knot, start feeling the back-draws of being single. The quietness of life is often felt. The loneness starts to stay with you longer. You hardly have friends whom have time to spare, to go out with you for a cup of coffee, to hanging in phone or even to sms. All this over and over again push you to rewind the mental video to those beautiful moments of close-friends days. Which now, obviously you do not own one.

It’s not their fault and nobody’s either. This is the natural circle and choice to be a sore thumb is your call anyway. No doubt being friends for so long but suddenly you feel like you are not enjoying the chain of companionship anymore. It doesn’t mean you have to regret for not getting married but maybe its time to change or join another club. Single-forever club. J That will take in that it’s not about being single but it’s about where you feeling good right now at you life journey.

For those noding head right now, no worries girl.. Understand and accept the changes and wish you find a clicking group soon. :-)

The most 10 things I do before die..

1.Update my ‘will’ doc in my laptop.
2.Have fun at a world class roller coaster ride.
3.Get a BMW M3 convertible - have a midnight high-speed ride with my favorite songs
4.Bring my mum for a wonderful vacation.
5.Make effort to write a ‘hi n bye’ letters to all my friends.
6.Have private dinner with each of my loved ones.
7.Play with my niece and nephew at their favorite theme park till we drop.
8.Write all my life secrets in a ‘secret’ blog.
9.Drink all the night without feeling guilty.
10.‘clean’ my bedroom.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Mean it!

Say what u mean; mean what u say;
and do not mean when saying it!

Feeling guilty is good thing.

Whether you feel guilt because talked too harshly to your loved-ones or accidentally killed a cat on the road or didn’t spend enough time with your parents or just paid summon because unnecessary speed-drive or spanked your kids in anger or was too lazy to clean the house and let someone else did it or lie to someone trust you very much or anything (that you can fill here)…. if u feel guilt it is a good thing!

Yeah maybe you didn’t do the right thing when it required but it doesn’t mean you’re a criminal whom need to blame yourself for it the whole day. As human being we do make mistakes and when guilt strike meaning you are still at the border of a ordinary human whom realize the mistake and so chances to correct it, is there (suppose). So tell yourself this will be your last round of doing so.. (or at least try so )

Where else others are exceeding the line freely every time and don’t even know what is feeling guilt about. You are better than these creatures.


Anything under the sun!

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