Once upon a time, when we are still under age of 10s, we’d friend with anyone despite their difference. We play, play and play without worry anything about the friend’s detail. When go to secondary we start to enjoy an element call friendship. We write friendship poem recognizing the ship. In teenager stage we like to share the both happy and sad moments completely to our so-called best friend. Which then later you realize may not a good idea. Because some remain your friend but the closeness could have fade-off; some may no more in touch but somewhere out there carrying some of your secrets with them. Some may still near you but at the opposite site of the road as enemies. Well yeah it happens.
Only when you step into your 21st you understand the real value behind of the ship. And start choosing them with little careful and determine the level to open your stories as well. Not to deny, that’s the most enjoyable term of being in warmness of friendship. You appreciate the relationship and pay importance for bonding. The friendship continues from here but the active period depends on the individuals and the intensity of the ship itself.
Look at the age, in beginning at our early 20s a group of friends talk about studies and soon later about their career development. That’s the time all busy working and making our account as fat as you can too. Yet they still keep in touch closely. Soon the topics changes to another level of life, love life. Friends enjoy sharing the up and downs of being in love. Besides, chit-chatting is like sugar-eating and days past with lotta fun at this stage. The things you talk about similar at the point of life. Later few of them may just started seeing someone, few may already met their life partner, or some may even busy finalizing for their weddings. Then slowly one by one will get going with their life and busy with babies, husband, and family and work too.
Suddenly one day you realize, you are left alone in the plane of single. Either you hardly receive calls from married-friends or even having them around but while they lost in stories of kids and husband, you sitting quietly having your old career-related story on mind which not attractive anymore.
You, as someone whom too sure to live single and proudly publicize it to all you friends when they advise you tie a knot, start feeling the back-draws of being single. The quietness of life is often felt. The loneness starts to stay with you longer. You hardly have friends whom have time to spare, to go out with you for a cup of coffee, to hanging in phone or even to sms. All this over and over again push you to rewind the mental video to those beautiful moments of close-friends days. Which now, obviously you do not own one.
It’s not their fault and nobody’s either. This is the natural circle and choice to be a sore thumb is your call anyway. No doubt being friends for so long but suddenly you feel like you are not enjoying the chain of companionship anymore. It doesn’t mean you have to regret for not getting married but maybe its time to change or join another club. Single-forever club. J That will take in that it’s not about being single but it’s about where you feeling good right now at you life journey.
For those noding head right now, no worries girl.. Understand and accept the changes and wish you find a clicking group soon. :-)
Only when you step into your 21st you understand the real value behind of the ship. And start choosing them with little careful and determine the level to open your stories as well. Not to deny, that’s the most enjoyable term of being in warmness of friendship. You appreciate the relationship and pay importance for bonding. The friendship continues from here but the active period depends on the individuals and the intensity of the ship itself.
Look at the age, in beginning at our early 20s a group of friends talk about studies and soon later about their career development. That’s the time all busy working and making our account as fat as you can too. Yet they still keep in touch closely. Soon the topics changes to another level of life, love life. Friends enjoy sharing the up and downs of being in love. Besides, chit-chatting is like sugar-eating and days past with lotta fun at this stage. The things you talk about similar at the point of life. Later few of them may just started seeing someone, few may already met their life partner, or some may even busy finalizing for their weddings. Then slowly one by one will get going with their life and busy with babies, husband, and family and work too.
Suddenly one day you realize, you are left alone in the plane of single. Either you hardly receive calls from married-friends or even having them around but while they lost in stories of kids and husband, you sitting quietly having your old career-related story on mind which not attractive anymore.
You, as someone whom too sure to live single and proudly publicize it to all you friends when they advise you tie a knot, start feeling the back-draws of being single. The quietness of life is often felt. The loneness starts to stay with you longer. You hardly have friends whom have time to spare, to go out with you for a cup of coffee, to hanging in phone or even to sms. All this over and over again push you to rewind the mental video to those beautiful moments of close-friends days. Which now, obviously you do not own one.
It’s not their fault and nobody’s either. This is the natural circle and choice to be a sore thumb is your call anyway. No doubt being friends for so long but suddenly you feel like you are not enjoying the chain of companionship anymore. It doesn’t mean you have to regret for not getting married but maybe its time to change or join another club. Single-forever club. J That will take in that it’s not about being single but it’s about where you feeling good right now at you life journey.
For those noding head right now, no worries girl.. Understand and accept the changes and wish you find a clicking group soon. :-)
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