Who can cross it easily? Human beings celebrate birth with joy, build relationship, enjoy the juice of it, additive to the bonding of family, and finally suffer when it breaks. Let it be a break off of relationship or death, it hurts and take time to heal. It’s not an easy play. Especially death of loved one has no leveling console. The severity of sore depends on the deep of love one has. The nature as its own agenda that remains unexplained. Its design of life cycle and construction of relationship are wonders. For god sake, no one have way to escape from going thru this bits and pieces in their life. Why, why, why and why such is life? What is essence behind this show? Are we human beings the most blessed species of living things or are meant to be the nastiest whom ‘deserve’ to undergo this ghastly soreness? No mistake we are somehow programmed to be this way and we don’t have ‘know-how’ to edit the codes.
Too many things running in our mind. We frighten to even think about it. We avoid talking or discussing about it. We have fear about it. The anxiety remains there and just hiding inside the heart. When it needs to come out, it bombs for sure. The grief of death even conquers the great Gautama Buddha. He out for enlightenment, he out to get the humans a solution but finally what he takes is surrendering. The truth that even he needs to digest is there are no way out! No way to bypassing it.
What all you can do is accepting it, living with it. Build yourself tough or you suffer. Come on men, but is it a click of act to become tough? How hard-wearing one need to be, to be able to digest the loved one leaving the planet? Ok I heard one of you say meditation. Is that right? Is that the workable remedy for living with it without going thru the bitter part of this living? Look like not much option experts says. Oh then I need it as much as you need. For those human being caught in the web of family, love and bonding, start to do something now or else you suffer. In fact the younger generation, the child in our lowest level of chain should be taught to know this fact and involve in mediation. Teach your child what is birth & death. What is separation, what is the chain of live, what could happen to one of the loved ones. How to be strong? What and how this so-called great meditation could help. This may could at least our little ones run off the pain of passing away of ours from their life.
Too many things running in our mind. We frighten to even think about it. We avoid talking or discussing about it. We have fear about it. The anxiety remains there and just hiding inside the heart. When it needs to come out, it bombs for sure. The grief of death even conquers the great Gautama Buddha. He out for enlightenment, he out to get the humans a solution but finally what he takes is surrendering. The truth that even he needs to digest is there are no way out! No way to bypassing it.
What all you can do is accepting it, living with it. Build yourself tough or you suffer. Come on men, but is it a click of act to become tough? How hard-wearing one need to be, to be able to digest the loved one leaving the planet? Ok I heard one of you say meditation. Is that right? Is that the workable remedy for living with it without going thru the bitter part of this living? Look like not much option experts says. Oh then I need it as much as you need. For those human being caught in the web of family, love and bonding, start to do something now or else you suffer. In fact the younger generation, the child in our lowest level of chain should be taught to know this fact and involve in mediation. Teach your child what is birth & death. What is separation, what is the chain of live, what could happen to one of the loved ones. How to be strong? What and how this so-called great meditation could help. This may could at least our little ones run off the pain of passing away of ours from their life.
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